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Comments: Hi I'm Thomas. I'm just trying to help my disabled mother replace her broken stove. My own household has been struggling this year and it hurts me that I don't have the funds to help her right now. Thank you for even considering my wish.
Comments: I just got out of prison about a year ago and I was doing ok at first until I wrecked my truck. It took about 3 weeks to get it back on the road but by then I lost my job. I've been looking for work every since just working odd jobs and hauling scrap. Now our lights are cut off and it is about 1000 bucks to get them back on... Our water is turned off as well .it ise my girlfriend and her daughter that is pregnant so we need lights and power ASAP.thank you for your time and consideration.
Comments: My family and I were displaced from Hurricane Helene we have went through all of our savings on motels and food still haven't had any response or any help from FEMA we're now living in our truck homeless and desperately trying to get a house before Christmas it's getting cold and we pray somebody can help us get into a place for the holidays thank you so much and God bless
Comments: Hi, I am hoping someone that believes in miracles sees this. I am 50 years old and retained custody of my 16 month old granddaughter in September 2024 when her parents (my son and his wife) were killed in a car accident with an uninsured motorist. I used all of my savings to pay for his burial and six weeks later was downsized at my job. The rest of my savings are gone from basic needs and I don't start my new job til after the first of the year. I'm not worried about Christmas gifts, she's a baby and doesn't know. She has a few gifts waiting and she will be happy. What I'm worried about is my power was shut off last week and I have been using a gas generator for heat and basic basic power. I am running out of money to keep it going and very low on food. With everyone so focused on the holidays I have nowhere to turn for help. My son was the only family I had left besides the baby and I'm just out of options. If it were just me I wouldn't be worried but it's cold and I refuse the let the baby be cold or hungry. If anyone out there can help me I'd be forever grateful. I just wanna get through this and get back to work. I worked there for fifteen years and have never needed any kind of help. I just need to get through about three weeks until I can get a first paycheck. This little girl has lost so much, I want her to be safe and warm, fed and happy. I feel like a failure because I can't do it. I have a cash app which is $zoe62274 and I have PayPal at peteyfrye2@gmail.com. thank you
Comments: Hello. I am a Multiple Sclerosis patient for many years. I can not work due to my medical condition. I am fighting day and night to survive. I need help with many things especially a dental bill. Thank you. Maria.
Comments: Thank you for reviewing my request. I am in need of financial assistance due to a reduction and delay with my regualar pay after being on medical leave from work. Because of the delay and reduction of my pay, I am faceing eviction from my apartment and loss of my utilitys. I cannot perfom my job responsibilities if I lose my utility services as I work from home. Aslo, my car payment is past due and I am at risk of repossession of my only vehicle, my only source of transportation.
Comments: I'm 18 years old with prenemoinia and several tickets, I left home at 18 with nothing and I'm in severe debt I just want some money to get through these bills
Comments: I am homeless 60yr old female in failing health living outside in freezing weather I have pet cat as well and I've been trying get help with security deposit and first months rent. But everywhere I call says no funding. I need to find housing I have terminal liver disease and can't work like I have my entire life life. I need any help offered I really need a place to live inside again
Comments: I just wanna be able to get my kids something for Christmas. I’m a single mom of 7 and I work full time but I don’t have any spare money for presents this year please help.
Comments: Please help me and thank you. Your help is greatly appreciated.
Comments: I was diagnosed with heart failure and had to stop working to take care of my medical issues. My husband turned to addiction and abandoned me and our two daughters, aged 11 and 12. We are currently staying in a shed in someone's backyard, we are only allowed in the house to use the restroom. This Christmas is going to be exceptionally hard. My daughters understand things are tough. Their christmas lists aren't big. One daughter wants skin products, socks and a warm jacket. The other daughter wants a new backpack, boots, lotions and body spray. I am hoping that I can get the something to make these gifts happen for them. Thank you and God Bless.
Comments: We relocated and things are really tough. I’m too prideful to ask, but really am struggling. Between rent and electric things are really scary right now. It’s exhausting because I help families all the time at work and then I’m coming home to this stress.
Comments: Hi I am a grandmother and guardian of two minor children. We are considered low income, and my landlord recently raised my rent from $850. to1100. This is not affordable to me. I have started to look for a home in the same district because children are tired of changing schools. The problem with this is we live in a high end residential area. I have found a home for us but can't afford a security deposit and 1st months rent. We also have a shortage on food every month especially at the end. I would greatly appreciate any help you could provide. Thank You for your time and consideration.
Comments: Hello my name is Agusta Markley I am 24 and a mom to 3 beautiful little girl’s age 2, 1, and 6 months. My boyfriends name is Ryan Hall he is 23. We are reaching out asking for help because he was just recently fired from his job due to wrongful termination. With the way the economy is now our families don’t have the extra means to helps us right now either. We were in the process of moving and are in need of a couch, stove, refrigerator and washer and dryer and other household items. We aren’t sure how we are going to make Christmas happen for our girls at this time either. So any and all help we can get would make such a difference for our girls and would be so appreciated. Thank you for tanking your time to read my message.
Comments: My name is Caneisha... I am a 36 year old survivor of Lupus. My fiancé's name is Nkenge. She recently lost her job due to unfair treatment(discrimination). She is currently 5 month pregnant and will be due on March 11th, 2025 almost 2 week from our LATE daughters birthday (#forever4). Even though we still struggle with our reality I really feel as though our little angel Kensley Brielle (who we lost to a tough battle with pediatric cancer March 25th, 2018-June 27, 2022) is always shinning down on us. "Make I Do it!" was her favorite phrase and gives me motivation every single day...She was trying to say"I can do it! Lol Nothing or no one will ever replace her bold,beautiful, pure presence but hopefully her spirit shines through our new addition to the family. His name will be Major Kingsley Webb in honor of our baby girl. I keep pushing no matter what obstacles come our way. This is why I'm laying all my pride, embarrassment and sadness to the side and humbling myself to explain my current struggle. We relocated to Texas from up north about a year and a half ago to be with close family members not realizing the HUGE difference in the cost of living our families are now in similar situations as we are financially so asking them for help is not an option. Together we raise our 13 year old son to the best of our ability but with her recent loss of job and being with child our financial status has drastically declined. I work 12 hour shifts 2-3 days a week that alternate bi-weekly plus whatever overtime i can get. I'm due to receive a raise soon due to me training for another position currently but I will not receive it until sometime after the new year. I'm working as much as my job and my body allows with my existing condition, but it still is not helping us make ends meet all the time. I even asked my job for resources which I reached out to most of the with not much luck. The state of Texas guidelines says that technically I make too much to receive any benefits like food stamps but with the cost of food and all of my other bills I'm barely able to buy food from the grocery store. Food pantrys help us out a little but limit how often you can visit. I have insurance but my co-pays to see a specialist for my condition are $65 per visit. My partner and I are not married yet so I can't put her on my insurance to receive prenatal or maternity care. She was only able to receive Medicaid because she is pregnant so once she has the baby he will continue to receive Medicaid but she will automatically be disqualified. Thankfully our 13 year old son also has Medicaid but there are limited options for doctors. I would love to have them all on my insurance but we are a same sex couple and although it is legal for us to marry here they can't get on my insurance because we are not yet legally married and there are stipulations and cost when it comes to me not being our 13 year old and soon to be newborn children biological parent. We've been trying to go through that process as well but it's costly at the moment and other needs have taken priority. Also, we've found that although a lot of offices don't accept government assisted insurance, it is more cost efficient for our son to be on Medicaid right now since they often offer him free or close to free prescriptions and doctors visits whereas primary care physicians who accept my insurance would be $30 per visit per family member. We are still trying to prepare for the baby's arrival. The assistance we've been able to receive thus far is WIC which limited but is a help with some of our food needs as far as cereal, milk, bread, cheese, fruits a vegetables. We also found a church called prestonwood that was able to do our first ultrasound sound at a fee of $50 dollars which they let us pay in installments. They also had a program that helped us with some clothing and a couple baby items. It was helpful but with the requirements to do classes at their center we were not able to continously commute 45 minutes to an hour to and from every week.We have also looked into resources for baby items but it seems as though all the resources we have been directed to either are all out of items and funds or are not accepting applications at the moment or have a waiting list because they are at capacity. All this outreach I've been doing for assistance is new to me and make me feel very vulnerable. But I'm humbly searching every route, reaching out to whomever can understand and empathize. I know troubles wont last alway. I will not give up. I know I've explained a lot but Im just being extremely transparent and honest about my situation. I'm trying my best to keep me and my family above water, keep a roof over our head and food in our stomachs. I know there are other families who are in more severe situations than I and mines but I still feel like there is no harm in asking for a help when you really need it; especially when I am trying my best and exhausting all options. I'm not asking for cash or permanent help. I'm just in a extremely tight spot at the moment and could use a little assistance. Anything would help right now honestly, even words of encouragement, a prayer. What ever type of additional assistance will be going towards getting necessary items for our newborn and 13y/o son and other necessities like putting towards our utilities, trash bill, rent,extra food, toiletries and anything else that will give me a little room to make our next few months a little less stressful and scary. I know there are good people out there and I always strive to give back when i can. I am abundantly appreciative of any feedback, donations of any kind towards our new addition, useful resources that I may have overlooked and/or financial grant assistance. Thank you for your time again. Caneisha Webb work email: uswebbca@tetrapak.com Cell (469-743-5268)
Comments: Hello, Thank you for looking at my post, I am posting on behalf of my Mom who has CLL Chronic Lymphatic Leukemia, when she was first diagnosed in 2021 she was doing great, but for the past year her health has significantly decreased where treatment is no longer helping. She also just recently lost her health insurance, she lives above my garage and I have tried to help her but we have fallen behind on our rent. We currently 2 months behind which is 1,824 dollars. I am a single mom to an 8 year old little girl, I am teacher who does not make a whole lot of money. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thank you and god bless!
Comments: Hello everyone and thanks first of all for taking the time to read this. I'm a 38 yr. Old mom of 2 amazing boys. I have stage 3 mastastic breast cancer.I've never been threw anything like this so I am doing my best to convey the urgency of my current situation I'm in. My sons are 20 as of Nov. 21st and i couldn't even get him anything for his birthday. And the youngest is 11. My oldest is the 1 whos literally taken care of me and his brother. He can't work because of this. Because I can't get help from anywhere. I've applied for health insurance 11 times threw my state and been denied due to something that was so wrong and so honestly disgusting to say to someone. Which can't be said here. I was denied from purchasing insurance due to previous health conditions (cancer). And also it's called the insurance market place said I was approved numerous times but I have not received anything from them and when my Dr's check i have no insurance. I've tried numerous things but its hard to research and try and find options when it either costs money or it's a website that says it will help yet you never get any . And also being sick like I am it's hard to do alot anymore. Here's a day in my life. First I normally wake up around 4 a.m if I get any sleep at all. I get up and slowly with my walker try to get things ready for the day. Which about 15 min. After that is when I'm extremely tired and in pain already. Which this is what alot of my day consists of. I have also other conditions now from a medication that was a trial that most of the patients that were approved for are no longer here. 78 out of a 100 of us anyway this trail cased sseziures numerous times a day. Fainting, serious pain and muscle spasms just to name a few. But I've spent my life saving on all this and not working an paying $3948.96 a month just for meds. I'm behind and about to lose everything I'm behind in my house payment. Also my car payment. I know and understand it's around the holidays. I also know what comes with that. I'm asking from the bottom of my heart to anyone reading this even if its not helping me. Please be a great person and please open your heart and help someone in need. So thank you for again reading, helping, even just for the reading of these stories especially in these times were we as humanity need to be here for each other. Thanks for the consideration happy holidays and I wish everyone the very best wishes.
Comments: 10-26-24 my son Daniel Ruiz 12yrs old suffered a seizure,large mass was in his brain, it was an AVM n HHT diagnosis immediate brain surgery was performed, 3weeks in hospital now home recovering, I'm a single disabled Mom, struggling financially just want to get a gift to make my son smile n pay my electric bill..I have medical papers with proof, thank you for this website hopefully we get a response
Comments: Hi. I am undergoing treatment for Stage3 Breast Cancer. Currently going through the second round of chemotherapy in hopes of shrinking a mass that has connected to a muscle through my ribcage in order to undergo adouble mastectomy followed by radiation. My husband and I have been self employed for a number of years now and because of the diagnosis June 13, 2024 have been immersed in everything cancer in fighting it. It has all but wiped us out of any monies we've made over the years already. So fast has everything changed up for us that its only in the few quiet moments I find myself wondering my ability to get through especially with the chemo sessions that leave me sick beyond functioning but for a few days. We live with my brother in his home as he suffers from Paranoid Schitzophrenia and is unable to care for himself. My mother was here to care for him until she passed in 2019 and now I do so as we have no other family to look to. However we are together and for that feel blessed. What I am requesting any monies for is to go towards the purchase of a used vehicle in which we desperately need; from getting to my appointments, to my brothers, grocery shopping and everything in between. Our truck was stolen and never recovered in September and we have been saving back everything we can to get into a used vehicle to replace it. Nothing fancy or new, just legal and one that runs. Our friends have helped immensely with rides needed although I have missed a couple of appointments by circumstance and cannot afford to miss any. We would be so grateful for any help and please know it would be paid forward as I gain strength again. For all thoseothers out there, please know you too are in our prayers. Susie
Comments: I am in desperate need to pay my light bill before Tuesday or they will be cut off and I have a beautiful 7 month old granddaughter please help
Comments: Thanks to everyone at Netwish for just being here. This is a great platform to help raise awareness and provide emergency assistance to those in need. I have been homeless for 7 years now. Having contacted over 33 different organized in my county limits and state wide not one was able to provide aid relief or assistance of any kind due to lack of funding, not what they're organization does, or simply I did not qualify. In today's economy finding work is becoming more and more challenging especially in small towns where it's even more limited. I've been talking about organizing something similar to this platform here. It's wonderful and it hasn't gone unnoriced. I thank you so much even if you aremt able to send me relief but I pray you are able to beccasue God as my witness I'm in need. God bless. Thanks again. Oklahoma
Comments: Hello, my names Deajanae Tye. I'm 24 years old. I am a child sex traffick survivor. Since the age of 12. I am in need of assistance. Since I've been 18 I've been in multiple domestic violence relationships but because I didn't know what love was I thought it was okay. Recently I've gotten employed and found God. I am trying to move into my first apartment but security deposit , first months rent and all that good stuff has been taking a toll on me. With the stress of trying to manage my job , being a caretaker for my grandmother who has neuropathy and my little sister who's 13. It's been hard. Just trying to do better and live a better life.
Comments: Desperately need assistance with rent and expenses. Have football sized ovarian cyst which requires a hysterectomy and an enlarged lymph node. Also need surgery for varicose veins. Mother died 11/9/24, and I was her unpaid caregiver. Her social security was our only income, so now I only have a little insurance money for my expenses next month. I do plan to go back to work when seasonal jobs open up in our area, but I need to recover from my surgery first. (A complete hysterectomy.) The uncertainty of whether or not I will be homeless after the first of the year is killing me. Please pray for me.
Comments: Ineed to repair steps on my porch and put some peel and stick floor in living room and kitchen
Comments: Please help I've already fell and broke my hip
Comments: Good evening I'm Angela,I have ductal carcinoma breast cancer level 3.Im bout to go in my devil chemo on Thursday with 8 treatments to go through I hope I make it.But I really need some extra help around my house it's just hard on me at the moment.If you could brighten my day some I would appreciate it very much.
Comments: Hi I'm 44 an I've been in a domestic violence relationship for 10 yrs now I finally had enough & moved but I'm homeless an live in a tent in woods I recently found out I have ovarien cancer I also lost my Dad a few yrs ago I have no family an I'm lost I'm looking for help a miracle anything will help thank you an God Bless
Comments: Im hoping to have my wish filled would mean alot to myself and family
Comments: Hello I needs assistance I just relocate from Fort Worth to Houston Texas. Thanks Ronnie Johnson
Comments: i just want to say thank you for being good people. And giving a place for someone in need to be able to go and ask for a little help
Comments: Hello everyone Im Ashley Im 39 39 years old. I was told I have Rheumatoid arthritis at 5. I Also have scholosis,and just Last year had a heart attack and heart surgury.Ive had both Hips replaced and i hurt a Majority of time. I need help With bills, i cant keep up, I havent had a car in 2 years So i cant get to my appointments This house is cold the furnace Is broke.My body doesnt like the cold. Please someone find It in their heart to help me Get stablity and back on my Feet please. Thank you for anyone that takes time to read this. This.
Comments: Abandoned Advocate By: Michelle Castile Introduction Welcome to my Nightmare Despite providing documented evidence of the extensive damage caused by the Wisconsin Weatherization Assistance Program – including pervasive moisture issues, backdrafting appliances, and cellulose insulation embedded in my carpeting – I was met with indifference and denial from both the Department of Health Services and the Department of Administration. Their refusal to acknowledge the program's errors and the resulting impact on my family's health and home has left me feeling powerless and betrayed. This ongoing battle, now spanning three long years, has consumed my life, leaving me with a gnawing fear for the future and an overwhelming sense of injustice. The lack of accountability and the continuous disregard for my family's well-being have shattered my trust in the very institutions meant to protect us. I will never understand why. Part I Beginning the Battle against Broken Systems Putting the Pieces Together: On a Mission to Solve a Building Science Mystery In late 2020, I embarked on a journey to improve our family home through the Wisconsin Weatherization Assistance Program (WAP). My initial optimism quickly faded as the program's work led to unforeseen consequences. Shortly after completion, our home developed severe indoor air quality issues. Air test results revealed high levels of CO2, VOCs, formaldehyde, and sulfur, among other contaminants. Further investigation, with the guidance of experts, uncovered a critical issue: the cellulose insulation added to the attic had overfilled the soffits, blocking airflow and creating excessive moisture. Additionally, the program's replacement of our electric water heater with a gas-powered model, along with the installation of a new furnace, exacerbated the problem. Both appliances were found to be backdrafting, drawing harmful combustion fumes back into the home. Before we understood the full extent of the backdrafting issue, a local HVAC technician discovered a cracked heat exchanger in our furnace. The Home Energy Plus Furnace Program, another initiative tied to the weatherization program, promptly replaced the furnace at no cost to us. However, my research led me to suspect backdrafting, which was confirmed when a tissue test showed both the new furnace and the gas water heater were drawing air back into the house. This further compromised our indoor air quality and highlighted the detrimental impact of replacing the electric water heater with a high-powered gas model in an already poorly ventilated home. Alarmingly, the lack of mandatory final inspections for both the weatherization work and the furnace installation allowed these dangerous issues to go unnoticed. The combination of the poorly installed bath fan, the gas water heater, and the lack of proper attic ventilation created a toxic nightmare in our home. A pervasive, harmful vapor, laden with toxins and insulation particles, seeped into every corner, invading our lungs and wreaking havoc on our health and home. The once-cozy attic, now overfilled with unsealed insulation, transformed into a breeding ground for mold, further poisoning the air we breathed. The gas water heater, installed by the very program meant to help us, was leaking gas, posing a grave danger to my children. The constant smell of gas filled me with a sickening dread, knowing that my family was living with an imminent threat. We meticulously documented this issue, along with the backdrafting problems, and presented the evidence to the WAP, DOA, and DECHR. Yet, our cries for help were met with a deafening silence, a cold indifference that chilled me to the bone. Our family's health struggles worsened due to the poor air quality. Our child's allergist recommended a whole-home ventilation system, but our insurance company denied coverage due to coding errors made by the physician's office. The insurance ombudsman refused to help, blaming us for the errors. This experience highlighted the harsh reality that even medical necessity could be denied due to bureaucratic red tape. Now all carpeting, bedding, furniture, and then some have become filled with VOC'S, combustion byproduct, cellulose and fiberglass insulation, all being carried in a smog of moisture that has overtaken our entire home. I often compare vacuming to be much like vacuming a beach in every single room. This is in the air we breathe every day and continues to settle and be soaked into every area possible, every fabric surface, all throughout our entire home. It was advised early on from one of the many experts I found and spoke with, to change the electronic air cleaner to instead be modified to fit a high MERV rated filter in order to at least try to make the air somewhat manageable. Unfortunately this modification did nothing and the air quality just kept getting worse. Even more so in the summer months as this negative air pressure causes the outside air to constantly be sucked in from every area it can. Energy bills quickly skyrocketed as cold air is forced inside during the winter, and hot, humid air in the summer, making our home very difficult to both heat and cool. Welcome to my nightmare. Buckle your seatbelts, you are in for a story even Hollywood can't make up and that left a mother on a mission to solve a maze of mysteries and fight against a superficial system. Part II Desperate for a Voice Falling Through the Cracks Deceived, Dismissed, and Denied The Central Wisconsin Community Action Council (CWCAC), the administrators of the weatherization program, swiftly denied any responsibility for the damage to our home. After countless phone calls and a home visit, they dismissed my concerns, mocking me with comments like "crazy female" and others dripping with discrimination. They refused to provide a grievance policy or even allow me to file a formal complaint, denying my right to due process. This pattern of dismissal and blatant disregard for my rights repeated itself with WisCAP (Wisconsin Community Action Program Association), the oversight organization, leaving me utterly alone in this fight. Little did I know this was just the start of being deceived, dismissed, and left with denial after denial. In October 2021, I met with the DOA's quality assurance manager for the WAP, a meeting facilitated after I contacted my local Senator. The manager assessed the damage and offered a list of repairs. His refusal to acknowledge the full extent of the damage forced me to reject his limited scope of work. This rejection is now used against me, making me appear unwilling to cooperate, while the true culprit—the weatherization program—remains unaccountable. The quality assurance manager dismissed the contamination of our belongings and attributed the moisture issues to a humidifier, which was clearly turned off in the photo he provided against our claims. He also claimed the moldy roof sheathing, caused by the faulty bath fan installation, was dry. However, this was only true during his summer visit, as condensation and leaks worsen in colder months. In this scope of work, an offer for a handful of furnace filters was included. However, this offer led to a disturbing discrepancy. We ourselves installed a higher rated filter afterwards as this was a definite need in order to try to limit the exposure to the air we breathe. Upon my consistently trying to obtain assistance for the gas leaking water heater, CWCAC sent a denial letter claiming the furnace had been "modified," making us ineligible for further assistance with the furnace and the water heater. This was a blatant fabrication, as the filter change was part of the DOA's proposed repairs. It became clear that CWCAC was attempting to shift the blame for the backdrafting issue onto us. The misleading report sent to Senator Marklein omitted these crucial details and painted a false picture of the situation. Which now everyone uses against us. Despite my providing extensive evidence and expert reports, the quality assurance manager's biased account prevailed. My records request from the Department of Administration (DOA) revealed a shocking omission: the program was required to install a whole-home ventilation system due to the blower door test results. However, this was never disclosed to me. The quality assurance manager falsely claimed I had refused it, citing a refusal form I signed for a simple bath fan timer switch. Further examination of the records revealed a forged signature on the final inspection paperwork, a blatant act of deception. This, along with the discovery of internal communications between DOA and DECHR employees instructing each other to ignore my inquiries, confirmed a concerted effort to cover up their negligence and silence my voice. My pleas for help extended to numerous legislators, but my encounters left me feeling unheard and dismissed. Meetings with Senator Marklein's staff yielded no action as I was told "The state of Wisconsin will not help you" highlighting the frustrating disconnect between those in power and the constituents they are meant to serve. Part III From Fix It To Forget It Blocking the Block Grant A Fight for Remediation Rights For three years, I've tirelessly sought answers and accountability. I've uncovered the root causes of the damage to our home and identified those responsible. Yet, my efforts have been met with a wall of silence and denial. Our once beautifully inherited home is now a moisture-ridden health hazard, causing my children to have ongoing health issues. The desperation and fear for my family's future weigh heavily on me, a burden no mother should bear. Despite reaching out to hundreds of agencies and individuals, including the Department of Natural Resources (DNR), my pleas for assistance have been met with inadequate responses. The DNR acknowledged the regulatory gaps that prevent them from directly helping homeowners like me, and their other programs, such as the Remediation and Redevelopment Program and the Air Management Advisory Program, offered no solutions. Even Disability Rights, an organization meant to protect the vulnerable, dismissed my case as a "construction issue," and after I filed a grievance, they delayed their response to this for over six months, breaking their own polices. After a disheartening interaction with their director, who angrily reiterated their inability to help, I was left to face this battle alone once again. A glimmer of hope emerged when I secured a Community Development Block Grant (CDBG) after a year-long wait. However, it proved to be another frustrating experience. After months of paperwork and unsuccessful attempts to find a contractor, the grant program manager abruptly denied funding for attic repairs, citing "duplicate funding" due to the original weatherization program. This denial was delivered in a one sentence email, lacking a formal appeal process grievance process. Despite the awareness of this I tried to bring attention towards, I was met with silence and further denials, leaving me devastated and without recourse. Adding to the mounting injustices, the Southern Housing Region Housing Committee denied the remaining grant funds, accusing me of violating "abuse clauses" based on an email expressing my concerns about the impact of the denial on my family's well-being. This devastating setback came after months of hard work and anticipation of finally resolving the issues caused by the weatherization program. HUD intervened and requested an independent legal review of the denial. However, this review, conducted by a single attorney residing in the same county as the committee that denied the funds, ultimately deemed the denial "legally defensible." My attempts to obtain clarification and raise concerns about potential conflicts of interest were met with silence from both HUD and the legal counsel. This left me without answers and further validated the feeling that my concerns were being dismissed and ignored at every turn. A records request was obtained that discovered this denial was voted by a total of four individuals, yet the reason was left out. Despite my efforts to try to obtain this information, I was unsuccessful as there was no other information I was given. My experience with the Wisconsin Homeowners Assistance Program (HAP) was another series of frustrating denials and bureaucratic hurdles. My first application was denied due to an inaccurate claim about home inheritance and mortgage status. Despite providing evidence to the contrary, the Department of Administration, which oversees the program, remained unresponsive. A second application was denied due to a missing document, despite the application lacking a designated upload section for said document. My third attempt was finally approved, resulting in a partial payment towards a large energy bill, but only after extensive follow-up and persistence on my part. In a last-ditch effort, I applied to the HAP again in late 2023 for emergency septic repair assistance. The next day, I received a denial claiming home repairs were ineligible, despite the program's guidelines explicitly including septic systems. I provided evidence from their own handbook, yet they doubled down on their denial and refused further communication, showcasing the program's capricious and unaccountable nature. I had also inquired about the ability to submit retail accounts as this too was labeled to be eligible for the grant funds to pay off for homeowners. My inquiry for this never did receive a response. The saga continued with the gas water heater, a ticking time bomb installed by the weatherization program. Despite the immediate danger of the gas leak, especially with children in the home, our application for a replacement under the newly implemented energy services water program was denied. The Department of Administration (DOA) cited vague reasons initially, then later blamed it on "furnace modifications"—the same filter changes their quality assurance manager had suggested. This contradictory and arbitrary denial, even with a gas leak, exposed the systemic indifference and lack of accountability we faced. We were left in a perilous situation with no recourse, trapped between the unresponsive state and the energy services program. I requested a denial letter to try to appeal, however this came too late and my efforts of appealing were again unable to be heard. These experiences highlight the systemic failures and barriers I continue to face in Wisconsin. The injustices I've endured are not isolated incidents but reflect a broader pattern of neglect and disregard for homeowners caught in the crossfire of bureaucratic red tape and contradictory policies. Despite countless attempts to reach out to authorities at all levels—from local agencies to the White House—my pleas have been met with silence and inaction. My documented evidence, including expert reports, has been ignored, leaving my family and me feeling invisible and unheard. This lack of response not only perpetuates the harm inflicted upon us but also raises concerns about potential violations of fair housing practices and discrimination. The system seems determined to silence me. Even legal aid and private firms have turned me away, leaving me feeling powerless and alone in this fight. The very institutions meant to protect and serve have instead become obstacles, further compounding the injustice and trauma we have suffered. The State Bar of Wisconsin referral service stated there were no available lawyers to take on my case, Legal Action stated a lack of resources, Marquette Law Office was also unavailable to assist after meeting with several different individuals on more than one occasion. UW Law clinic had looked into the ability to obtain the whole-home ventilation system recommended by my daughter's physician, however due to the lack of distributors for this item who worked with Medicaid, this was impossible to obtain I was told, even with a letter stating it to be a medical necessity. Three years' worth of evidence, including a 30-page report from the state health department detailing extensive testing, unequivocally proves the damage inflicted upon my family. Yet, those responsible remain unaccountable, choosing to ignore the overwhelming evidence and leaving us to suffer the consequences. My pleas for help have reached the highest offices—the Governor, the White House, the Department of Energy, the Inspector General—yet all have fallen on deaf ears. The deafening silence from those in power has taken a devastating toll on my mental health, pushing me to become my own advocate in this relentless pursuit of justice. My research discovered a lack of oversight over the Department of Administration, further clarifying there really was no where else for me to go with my boxes of evidence for this complex situation. Left exhausted but a refusal to give up, I am determined to expose the truth and hold those responsible accountable. My ordeal is a stark reminder of the systemic failures that plague government assistance programs, leaving vulnerable individuals without recourse or justice. It is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the unwavering pursuit of accountability in the face of overwhelming adversity. Part IV An Advocate Awakens Finding my Purpose in Policy Discovering my Voice, Partnerships, and Liberty In the beginning, my fight felt solitary and overwhelming. The indifference and mockery I faced only amplified my despair. With the world seemingly crumbling around me, I turned to online resources, hoping to find a glimmer of hope amidst the darkness. Countless Zoom webinars became my lifeline, offering a sense of connection and community in a time of profound loneliness and with no where left for me to go. I also did it for the resources I was hopeful I might come across. It was through these virtual gatherings that I stumbled upon the Wisconsin Statewide Parent Educator Initiative, (WSPEI) a beacon of hope amidst the storm about to brew. Their down-to-earth approach and wealth of knowledge empowered me to navigate the complex world of educational advocacy. I learned about IEPs, 504 plans, and the process of obtaining assessments for my struggling children in a school who refused to provide support. The weight of my children's unmet needs, coupled with the school's growing disregard, slowly chipped away at my resolve. My daughter, Abigail, struggled with cognitive delays, impacting her ability to keep up with her peers. My son, Adam, faced behavioral challenges that often put him in dangerous situations. The school's response was a disheartening mix of inaction and empty promises, leaving me feeling trapped in a system that failed to prioritize my children's well-being. Armed with this newfound knowledge, I confronted the school's refusal to even consider evaluating my children's needs. Fueled by a growing sense of empowerment and the support of WSPEI, I began to submit complaints, documenting every instance of neglect and discrimination. It was a daunting task, filled with uncertainty and fear of retaliation. However, having previously navigated the labyrinthine world of home weatherization complaints, I knew the importance of speaking out, even when met with resistance. Submitting those complaints to the Wisconsin Department of Public Instruction felt like a weight lifted off my shoulders. Unlike my previous battle, where I faced a maze of bureaucracy with no clear path to resolution, this time I had the knowledge and resources with a clear path to demand accountability. My advocacy efforts gained momentum, leading to investigations and ultimately the removal of the Superintendent and eventually, the Special Education Director from their positions. Both of which had dismissed both of my children's disabilities and refused to give assessments for the support they needed. This was a turning point, not only for my children but also for my own sense of empowerment. It solidified my belief in the power of speaking out and demanding change, even in the face of seemingly insurmountable obstacles. Fueled by this newfound confidence, I expanded my advocacy efforts beyond educational rights. After the tragic loss of an acquaintance due to the lack of readily available Narcan, this ignited my dedication to substance abuse prevention. I sought out harm reduction supplies, distributing them throughout my community and beyond in honor of my friend's memory. When I reached out to the county health department for additional resources, I was unexpectedly invited to join their newly formed grassroots recovery coalition. Stunned but determined, I accepted the offer. One year later, I now serve as the secretary of this coalition, a testament to the unexpected paths that advocacy can lead us down. This opportunity opened doors I hadn't ever considered, leading me to become deeply involved in committees and advocacy groups dedicated to making a tangible difference. Empowered by the knowledge I had gained and the connections I was beginning to make, my quest for support led me to Family Voices and the Board for People with Developmental Disabilities (BPDD), specifically their Partners for Policymaking Program. My first encounters with these organizations had been uncertain, as I had reached out to nearly every organization in the state, only to be told they couldn’t assist me. I contacted them multiple times, feeling as though I was caught in an endless loop of searching for resources that seemed just out of reach. Yet, as I navigated their websites, I couldn’t shake the feeling that their mission resonated deeply with my own struggles. It wasn’t until I grasped the essence of their work—providing leadership and advocacy training—that I realized I had found something profound. This was the moment I truly fell in love with the concept of advocacy. To my immense relief, they welcomed me with open arms, offering not just support, but the chance to engage in their transformative trainings. Family Voices led me to finding my voice again when I had lost it in the constant battle against bureaucracy and hate. This organization became my "home away from home" and lasting friendships were created. This helped to lead me out of my isolation and slowly back into the world I had become so deathly afraid of facing. In the midst of my training with Family Voices, an individual I had reached out to previously for help, sent me an application for The Board for People with Developmental Disabilities Partners for Policymaking Program. It opened my eyes even more, leaving me to wonder what she saw in me that led her to extend such an opportunity, telling me she wanted me to have it. This moment deepened my resolve, inspiring me to explore the potential she had recognized in me and further commit to the path of advocacy. These trainings became a pivotal point in my life. Surrounded by others who were just as passionate as I was, though driven by different causes yet united by a common desire to create change, I discovered a sense of belonging and empowerment that had long eluded me. I found friendships in these rooms, forged by our shared commitment to making a difference. The skills I gained were invaluable, but even more importantly, I was pushed beyond my comfort zone, learning to share my story and connect with others in ways I had never imagined. This was not just a learning experience; it was a rebirth, a profound awakening to the power of advocacy. Where I once stood alone, I now stood united with others and empowered to create change. As my advocacy journey progressed, a surprising opportunity arose. On a whim, I decided to fill out the FAFSA, even before knowing if I'd be accepted into Liberty University's online social work program. To my extreme surprise I was accepted, and now, as a sophomore, I'm working tirelessly to become a voice for the voiceless. Becoming a college student was something I never once thought would happen to me, it just wasn't in the cards. Then all of a sudden, it was. It has been an enlightening experience thus far, and I can't wait to see where it takes me. Mental health also became a deep passion of mine. Especially after I had suffered deep wounds from sudden losses, and how I felt as if I were screaming in a room full of people who could help but wouldn't or couldn't. It wasn't a choice but a necessity to seek out a therapist of some kind to help me get through it all. I reached out to NAMI, drawn by their mission and the impact they were making in the community. They were quick to recognize my passion and invited me to join their advocacy committee, where I could lend my voice and experiences to shape their initiatives. Around the same time, I stumbled upon the Superior Health Quality Alliance and was immediately impressed by their dedication to addressing health disparities. I applied to be a member, hoping to contribute my perspective and energy to their cause. Within hours of submitting my application, I received a call offering me the position of an advisor. It was a surreal moment, a validation of my newfound purpose and the impact I could have. Most recently, I was thrilled to receive an offer to join the policy champions committee through a social connectedness organization in Wisconsin. This unexpected opportunity allows me to directly address the issue of social isolation, a cause close to my heart due to my own experiences. Today, my unwavering commitment to fighting for myself and others, from mental health and Medicaid reform to substance abuse and social connectedness, exemplifies the true spirit of advocacy. My story serves as an inspiration, reminding us that even in the face of immense challenges, one voice can ignite a movement and create a better world for all. Part V A Journey Wth No End Grateful, Grounded, and Growing A Future of Endless Possibilities and a Dedicated Determination Throughout my relentless advocacy, I have transformed from a victim into a voice for change. I will continue to fight for reforms that ensure transparency, accountability, and support for those seeking assistance. I will not rest until every homeowner is treated with dignity and respect, and no one else suffers the devastating consequences of a system designed to help, yet ultimately fails them. I was a stay at home every day mother of two and that was my small and simple life. Then everything changed and my life changed with it. Even though it has been an extremely difficult, tiring, and exhausting journey of fighting for what's right, looking back now I wouldn't change one thing. Everything that occurred was for a reason and that reason is where I stand today. Still a stay at home mom of two, yet with an abundance of advocacy and leadership trainings under my belt, experiences I never once thought to be a possibility in my life, and an advocacy that does not stop, and will not stop until I see these policy changes are put in their rightful place. This is my story, but it is not just mine. It is a story shared by countless others who have fallen through the cracks of a broken system. By sharing my experience, I hope to inspire change, empower others, and revise policies. My journey from a frustrated homeowner to a passionate advocate stands as a testament to the transformative power of personal experience. It's a testament to how adversity can ignite a passion for change, leading to remarkable achievements even in the face of immense challenges. Although my story isn't over yet as I continue to fight for my family's health and home, I have found my purpose and place in this frightening world. Like the quote from one of my legislators Chief of Staff said to me, "The state of Wisconsin is not going to help you." Where exactly does one go when the government fails? I have yet to figure this out. Until then, my fight for justice continues.
Comments: Hello- I was recently diagnosed with a very rare autoimmune disease called ANCA-related vasculitis, specifically Microscopic Polyangitis. This chronic illness causes my immune system to attack my small blood vessels, capillaries, kidneys and lymph nodes, and is associated with stress-related flareups; it can be life threatening because it increases the risk of stroke and/or aneurysms. Diagnosis and treatment has required multiple visits to different specialists starting in Feb of this year, and my symptoms are often debilitating. I suffer from chronic pain, kidney infections, painful and swollen lymph nodes, inflammation of blood vessels, uncontrolled bleeding and inability to heal wounds, exhaustion, fever, nausea/vomiting, and rapid weight loss. My rheumatologist put me on chemotherapy which I take weekly, and the side effects have made daily activities even more challenging. While my former boss would like to rehire me once my health issues are improved, he had to let me go last month due to my inability to manage a full-time schedule. The loss of income and worsening symptoms placed a lot of stress on my relationship, so my fiance broke up with me and moved in with his ex. I had nowhere to go so I've been staying with his mother, but I have to move out by the end of this month (October). I have maxed out all of my credit cards just to survive, and I have no money left for my phone bill, let alone a deposit on an apartment or first month's rent. My car was repossessed so I have no transportation, which further limits my ability to be independent and support myself financially. Coming to terms with the loss I've suffered due to this disease is extremely difficult, especially because I'm isolated with no family support, and my close friends live at a distance; many days, my anxiety/depression is so bad that I feel hopeless about the future. I've never not been able to take care of myself, but now my dog Maggie and I are facing homelessness, while I continue to struggle with my health. I am running out of time and resources, so if your organization can help I would be eternally grateful. Thank you so much, and God bless. -Molly
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Comments: I am a single mother on disability and right now I am really struggling. I am running out of food and my electric bill is past due in the amount of over 500.00 and it is scheduled for disconnection on 10/11/24. It is so hard right now but I have FAITH that God will make a way. I am just so overwhelmed right now. I have been homeless for the last 3 years and just recently got a place for me and my son. I am worried that I will not be able to provide my son with a Christmas...Any help would be appreciated.
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Comments: Hello,my name is Christin Juhasz and I don't know where to put my number or their number or doctors number or my address? But first I want to say thank you and God bless you for helping others!! On July 15, 2024, my father was diagnosed with renal cell carcinoma that has metastasized to his lungs and lymph nodes. Despite being given only a year to live with treatment, he is currently undergoing chemotherapy and immunotherapy. Incredibly, he continues to work alongside my mother at Walmart. They simply can't afford not to work, and he wants to maintain a sense of normalcy. However, the financial strain is immense. They are struggling to pay for food, rent, car payments, and high copays, not to mention the exorbitant cost of treatment. I am desperately seeking any help to lessen their burden so they can focus on his health and cherish their time together as a family. They are such good people, and any assistance would be immensely appreciated." My email is Sylviasweden34@gmail.com Thank you so much and even if you can't help me maybe you can point me in a direction to who might be able to? God Bless ♥️
Comments: I am a single mom to three beautiful girls ages 15,8, and 5. My middle daughter has special needs and a very complex medical history. She has a very rare syndrome called Nicolaides Barister which only 200 people in the world are diagnosed. It causes very sudden regression so my daughter at the age of four was able to speak eat and potty trained. Prior to us getting genetic testing she was a normal child. She woke up on Christmas morning and from that day on she couldn’t speak wouldn’t eat and back in diapers. As a family of three young girls I was not physically emotionally and financially prepared to take on our new way of living. I have been employed at the same company for 21 years but I over the last couple of years I had to take a lot of unpaid time off to attend to all of her appointments, procedures, hospital stays, therapies, and surgeries. This girl has had THREE brain surgeries by the age of six. I am falling behind in utility bills as the unpaid time is becoming more frequent.
Comments: Hi, I am hoping to get some help my family get some extra money for good for my family. I attempted to kill myself last year and that led to my mom having to pay for everything in the household. She is behind in bills and debts, I am trying to help since I got a job last month but with the commute and other travel, we are using a lot of money to just get to our jobs. 200 would help in getting food for us, easy meals that are quick. Thank you for your time!
Comments: I’m a single mother of three who is battling breast cancer that has metastasized to other areas including most recently my liver I am in desperate need of financial assistance to the fact that my fiancé 18 years left me and my children and my small business is not able to keep up because I am a sole proprietor and I’m not able to clean houses. I had seven surgeries in six months and my children and I are struggling just to keep utilities on. Please help me.
Comments: I have been protected and blessed and I am so thankful for everything god has given me . I’m in school, a baby , and a new house . School has to be payed out of pocket .
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Comments: My sister and I lived together for 39 years and last June she passed away from a long illness. During the past year and a half, I have been struggling financially due to not being able to find a job. Now I am facing an emergency financial hardship. With no income, cannot pay any of my bills including my rent. Was hoping Netwish could provide some assistance. Thank you from the bottom of my heart!!!
Comments: I am 31 years old and have been diagnosed with a rare type of leukemia, intracranial hypertension, and epilepsy, all within the last four years. Recently, I managed to find the courage and escape a three-year relationship that was extremely emotionally and physically abusive. Living with my abuser made things even harder, and while breaking free was a vital step for my well-being, it has unfortunately left me homeless and without a car Describing the past four years as an unfortunate series of events would be an understatement. Right now, I'm in desperate need of funds for a down payment on a car. Having this would allow me to take on gig jobs as my health permits, enabling me to get back on my feet. I am sincerely seeking any assistance that might be available. $sadesterelmoon
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Comments: Hi my name is Jazmyn smith and I’m a single mother of two to a 11 year old boy and 6 year old little girl. I had lost my job back in January and it seems like it’s been a struggle ever since trying to get back on my feet. Been looking for a new job ever since and it’s not easy to do. Any little bit of money I get from family or friends I strictly put into bills. I have a 1400 dollar light bill and everything that I did work hard at getting is slowly vanishing away. Internet I had to let go, can’t participate in any fun activities with my children on the weekend and the transportation I have right now just ran out on insurance and the tags are expired. Things like this are only discouraging me because now I am messing with my credit due to unpaid bills and also developing a record due to driving illegally to try and get a job. Despite the struggle I don’t let this interfere with my kids lives. They still see me as this mother that’s got it together not knowing I cry every night wishing that things would get better for us. I hate this but I still put my best effort possible and make the best out of a disaster. Please help me if possible. I’m just another person trying to make something out of my life and give my kids more then I’ve had or ever had growing up.
Comments: My thanks to all who work on this meaningful grant. I had breast cancer surgery last week, will soon start radiation and chemo. At the same time I'm accepting difficult and life-altering realities about my marriage of 42 years. We're both senior (I'm on the younger side :) and disabled with Social Security our only income. My laptop—purchased twelve years ago when I was working—represents my path to a better life. It needs a replacement battery to work reliably. Your grant would allow me to return to work for greater independence’s and a fighting chance for wellness, even freedom.
Comments: I’m currently going through a trying time I have a new job and it’s going great I just need help getting the funds to put a deposit on a new place I have about 15 days to figure something out god bless
Comments: I recently had my first child a month and a half ago. We can not afford daycare since I have no income coming in while being on maternity leave since we have no available sitters either. I have a bunch of bills coming in from the hospital and also have reoccurring bills like rent, car note, insurance, etc but have had to put them on my credit card since I’m not currently bringing in any income. Any help would be greatly appreciated! |
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